I once spanked her pretty hard three times in one day the closest I came to actually bruising her. The penalty for getting caught smoking in uniform was to have to wear a little girl's dress, ankle socks, and Mary Jane shoes for a week. So long as a woman can answer that question in the affirmative, how her husband spanks her is largely irrelevant. I always had a safe word except for discipline spanking with my boyfriend. We have used other implements but we always return to using my hand, as she says it feels more personal and she knows that I can and will give her a red bare bottom that will last at least a day, especially when her sit spots are spanked. Therefore, you must first earn my trust and establish a safe-word before attempting the game of erotic spanking. Currently, this issue seems to trump other considerations.
Personal: What does my wife think while I spank her?
Both of us getting an orgasm after is not the goal. There there needs to be a line drawn. Both take creativity and require me to be very emotive. Vanessa gets whipped hard! Has blind links like so many TGPs do. My legs are spread for almost all my spankings so he smacks me between the legs on my pussy at the same time.
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He is mulling over some issues and its confusing me! I am known to dish out pain when it is carefully negotiated in a safe, sane way. Do you actually play those games? I have to say that the last few spankings have been little more firm and somewhat more effective. Comments As a woman who is a traditional woman that also needs proper, loving boundaries and a firm hand I must say that the way you are saying to spank a woman is confusing.
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Description: People can relate to music in general, but not everyone relates to fetish. Find out about any misgivings she may have. Tell us why Please tell us why you think this story should be removed. Spanked on the bed May 27, The natural reaction is fight or flight when you feel pain, only by warming up and taking the spanking slow will you allow her to submit on her own to a very painful experience and help her to overcome the fight or flight syndrome.